The Self Worth Trap:

Your Self Worth is controlled by both internal and external forces.

Unless you are in connection with your True Self-Worth, these forces will run your life and you will come in and out of feeling worthy depending on which force is affecting you at any moment in time.

This is why, the ultimate aim of my work and the ultimate outcome I invite you to aim for is a strong connection to your True Self-Worth.

That is where my one-on-one work goes without exception.

And this is the direction we will take in this programme.

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The Trap

We live our lives to validate our existence, to prove who we are and find where we belong.

Constant seeking, constant doubt, constant leaning and constant taking attention and energy from others.

• We cannot be still - stillness means emptiness.

• We cannot be ourselves - who we truly are was denied and shut down.

• We cannot express ourselves fully - it disturbed the adults when we were young.

• We cannot find our creative life force - it was drowned in shame, guilt and fear.

Since we live in a perception of lack and emptiness, we are never really fulfilled.

The trap is that we experience love, intimacy and connection through life experiences (food, friendships, work, money, sugar, comfort, activities and so on). BUT those experiences never really fill us up. They are temporary. They never really bring us the joy we desire. It is always fleeting and we keep chasing one after the other without an end.

The results, "I am not worthy" - because I don't feel worthy deep in my core.

When we find the connection with ourselves again, we know our path and direction and we experience ourselves again.

We feel self-love, natural confidence, inner peace, calm, natural energy, natural joy and true self worth.

We don't make it happen - it is an effect of being who we truly are.

Then we experience the world again through being full, not by using it to fill up.